Saturday 29 March 2008

Same Script Different Cast

Men you bloggers make writing so fun and fulfilling! Thank you so much for all your love and support. Sometimes I feel my life is some sort of reality TV show lol. The weekend started on a fantastic level! I went for Festival of Life. For those who know about it I'm sure they can testify that you get so refreshed after the anointing is poured on you. It is a Night vigil event where Christians from all over the UK come and celebrate God and life. It's a time to reflect, a time to heal and a time to grow. I feel strengthened and I am confident that the Lord's strength will see me through the inevitable roller coaster of life.

I want to give a shout out to the writer behind www.bridesville.blogspot.com. Thanks to the Anon who pointed me there. I hope she gets to read my blog as well. I pray you will laugh so hard at some of my past stories (that's if you are not already a reader). All I can say is reading your blog made me realise that as humans when we are going through certain hurts or disappointments, it's the same exact feeling that overwhelms the best of us. I mean girl your description of how alone you felt after you realised your man was gone and never to return just totally gave me the shivers because I sure have been there 1 too many times. Therefore I urge all females to always take the deepest breathe ever when they are going through Male issues and look out to the world to see how others are coping because you might just get comfort from another story you hear. You are never alone! The Joy of the Lord will forever remain your strength so please lets endeavour to keep that joy burning.

I use to joke that men had a school they graduate from where they teach them the ways to become either a God fearing Man or just a mere Frog. It is clear that from that school they are handed out 2 dissertation choices either write about how you want to make your life count, how to respect fellow human beings, how to love with patience and be rewarded, or write about how being a player is the best feeling in the world, how to brag to your male counterparts after every conquest of the female specie, etc. So you see it's always a Choice! Now I know that when a man makes the decision to love he can almost immediately make the decision to revoke the love. Vice-versa for women to but since I am not here to criticise females I'll just hope we also check ourselves before placing blame on the men alone.

I mean anytime I replay "Cry Baby Guy" in my head, I can't stop laughing because even when I found out he had a deceptive story I still carried on the lala dream. "Phone girl" was made to look like a lunatic and I was happy to belief in the lies not even bothering myself that he probably was calling me a lunatic to her as well. It's the same story they cook up for each female but it's always a different girl in the picture frame. Guess sometimes you spice up one story for a slight variation but that's it really. But of cause I must hold on to the strong belief that not all men are frogs :-)) , I hope so! Anyway since I'm having an awfully late start to my day I best be off. Have a blessed weekend all.

9 comments:

AJIKE said...

Hey hun, u write very well.

keep posting!

peace !

x

Anonymous said...

Welcome, Back I have missed you soooooooooooo much and I know I am not the only one. ***

Figurella said...

Ajike and Anon 10:20 thanks. Guess work overwhelms me at times so never have real me time. But I'll keep posting.

Anonymous said...

Hey figurella, thanks for the shout out, i read your comment the other day and it was very encouraging, like your postsbas welll, infact i've been told some 'frog tales' recently but i could never do justice to them like you, maybe i'll mail em to u...

Bout feeling so alone its crazy, writing has really helped me see that i'm not alone and it has been very theurapatic, i wish he could read them too, but i'm wise enuff to know it wont make a difference, looking forward to have a prince tale for myself soon tho..keep the fire burning you're truly inspirational!

dreamgirl...

Figurella said...

Dreamgirl it would be lovely if other tales can be shared so yes pls feel free to drop me a story or two to my inbox.

By the grace of God we shall all have a Prince tale to share. Patience is key, no matter how long the wait it's still best to wait for Gods time.

Unknown said...

Figurella, good to have you back on blogville...missed you oh. Love reading your frog tales and i'm glad you found your prince. God save those of us that are single from the many frogs of this world. Yeah, FOL was divine.

Anonymous said...

hmmm....at least she has accepted that not all men are frogs....:-)
so ladies take heart....enjoy ur life, be happy..one day you will be loved 4 sho!...(i love that song)......

wats the latest on cry baby...have you totally decided to forget about the cash or you still scheming to get it back..?

Dundee brother....

Figurella said...

Dundee Brother, I have left it alone. Who knows I might decide to dedicate a Post to men who lack "Integrity". It's just money it comes and it goes :-))

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