Leech Guy

Thank God it is Midweek. Think I'm getting the winter blues, waking up is now such a daily struggle. O well in everything I still give thanks for a good and healthy life. I haven't had time to gather other people's frog encounters but a friend of mine summarised one she just recently went through. Due to the fact that I wasn't involved in this tale, I will do my best to point out the unfortunate part to her tale.

Leech guy met Sharon at a party (very popular meeting place eh), and after a good nite of dancing and chatting they exchanged numbers. Sharon is in a school outside London while Leech Guy works in London. Over the course of many weeks, Leech use to come and visit Sharon, hang out with her friends and pretty much got very familiar with her environment. Sharon grew fond of him cos of all the time and effort he use to put into coming down to see her. Finally she agreed to become his girlfriend. She initially played it down because she wanted to watch their relationship for a bit rather than announce she has a man and in no time telling people it's over. After 2 months, she was still getting the butterfly effects in her tummy so she became proud of her man and was ready to shout it on the roof top that she was on an all time high.

Sharon started coming down to London to spend time with her man in an attempt to know his group of friends as well. She got along with most of them and at the time she didn't feel any threat to her relationship. Until one day she checked good old Facebook for the daily feed and saw that a girl had left a message that sounded a bit more than just a mere friend......"Miss u loads". Sharon decides to ask Leech who that is, of cos he played it down and said it was an old friend he went to high school with back in Naija. Not trying to be paranoid, she let any negative thought that was building go. Then the wall messages from this babe started increasing. Most times they were non harmful, daily rantings so she still chose to ignore it. Then the babe started sending him Facebook gifts and so Sharon asked once again who this babe was? Leech guy said ok fine, she is an ex-girlfriend of mine, our relationship finished in January but she insisted we remain friends. Now that she knows I have u, she is trying her hardest to get attention and cause trouble.

At this point Sharon was very uncomfortable and cos she was 6 months into the relationship she didn't find it easy following her instinct that sumtin nasty was cooking in that dude's kitchen! She went on holiday with friends, and thought to herself that will be a good time to reflect on her current predicament. I mean why should a girl be acting so "crazy" as Leech guy was tryna insinuate if the dude isn't encouraging it? She didn't want to be forward and start contacting the girl cos that would show that she had trust issues. Leech kept calling her during the holiday and reassured her about their relationship. He even sent money for her to do some clothes shopping for him. Sharon says her friends were always irritated with how much time she spent selecting things for this guy and it was biting into her holiday fun time. Just cos she wanted to make sure he was impressed with her selection. Her compensation was that she could spend a bit on herself as well and hey this was her boify after all so she did it wholeheartedly.

On her return to London, Sharon took the items she bought for Leech to his house. He had a male friend over so they were all catching up on gist when suddenly the front door was being unlocked form the outside and then a lady walked in. She greeted the guys first then looked at Sharon and asked who she was? Sharon thought okkkk what an unfriendly stab at her, and she proceeded to say "I am Leech's girlfriend". The Door Lady stirred at Sharon blank and said are u having a laugh? "I am Leech's girlfriend of 2 years" in fact the house u r in right now belongs to me! I pay the mortgage here and allowed Leech to stay until he finds his place. I live at home with my family but this property belongs to me! So Sharon u see you cannot be Leech's girlfriend.

By the time Sharon looked back, Leech and his male friend had escaped through the back door........ whilst the ladies were exchanging info. The Loser of a Leech had run away leaving Sharon with a stranger Door Lady. God is good that Door Lady was not a lunatic so she escorted Sharon out of the ....... what was now to be her "ex-cheating boyfriend's house". Sharon was sooo maddddd that tears refused to come down her cheeks. I mean how was she to know? She put two and two together that the girl from Facebook was this Door Lady. If only she had contacted her rather than thinking how Leech will feel if he found out. I mean was she really so trusting? There were no real signs of him having a babe and no gossip in town to that effect.

Leech didn't contact Sharon until a week after this event and it was even through an offline message. Said he knows sorry cannot make the situation better and that she didn't deserve this but he really felt that he was going to find the strength to break up with his girlfriend before Sharon found out. He said it was work in progress and that Door lady (his girlfriend) came to his house earlier than she usually does.........LOLLLLLLLLLLLL emmmm plsss u guys are u enjoying this sort of plea???? No remorse, instead justification as to how his Best laid plans went to the bin! Word in town was that Leech was telling people that Sharon knew he had a girlfriend. So good old Sharon did one last thing, she sent an email addressed to both Leech and Door lady stating her defense and making sure Leech can take comfort in knowing that Life itself will teach him a lesson. She isn't going to wish him ill, no need. The all seeing God will do justice to Leech. She prayed for Door Lady that she finds the strength to move on from such a 2 timing geezer but apparently she isn't about to throw 2 years of her relationship away. LOL LOL and yet we wonder why some marriages are doomed from the alter!!!